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Cake day: August 29th, 2023

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  • Ahh, I think what your missing is something called perspective.

    If you’re in a good relationship with a partner then as the years pass you find yourself appreciating them more and more.

    If you’re a hardworking business owner or manager that’s actually there doing the work alongside the employee, you gain the appreciation that even though their task may be different, they are just as dedicated and as hard working as you are (while also receiving less income).

    If you’re absent or detached from the process, of course you’re only looking at the contractual obligations and if they’re “holding up their end” of the deal. It takes time and emotions, hard sweat and tears. Not something you’re just suppose to “get”. It comes after those nights where equipment eventually breaks, A/C goes out, Rush times are beyond your capacity or anything your facility could handle, customers are literally in your face screaming at you. It builds a bond in hell that a contract could never really spell out properly.

    If you don’t feel anything after that especially with a romantic partner, you might want to explore the idea that maybe you’re missing out on a part of life that wasn’t emotionally developed in you and there are steps to rectify and address the situation.